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"It was not you who chose me, but I who chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit that will remain."
John 15:16

Take Your Faith To The Next Level

Peer Mentor Job Description

Purpose:
To give High School students a opportunity to become leaders and role models to Middle School students by sharing their faith journey. As a High School student, they have had many of the same experiences as the Middle Schoolers are having and through small groups, social activities and various Crossfire activities they are able to help younger youth grow in their faith.

Qualifications:

* Desire to continually strive in their faith through prayer, community, and service activities

* Freshman or Sophomore in High School to mentor 6th Grade Students on Wednesday's

* 2nd semester Sophomore's, Juniors, & Seniors in High School to mentor 7th & 8th Grade Students on Sunday's

*Active in their Faith and willing to share experiences with younger youth while humbly practicing being a strong Catholic Role Model

Responsibilities:
• Commit for at least one 4-month period per year mentoring. (Summer, Winter, Spring)
• Attend Servant Leadership Night monthly (usually 3rd Friday of the month). On this
night we will socialize, pray, brain storm and do necessary training
• Attend the planning meetings once a month for the night you are running
• Build personal relationships with youth in your small groups by calling or emailing weekly, having lunch or attending school activities, etc.

Time required:
(15 hours per month)
4 hours per month for Servant Leadership Night
2 hours per month for Planning Meeting
2 hours per Sun or Wed for Crossfire
1 hour per month for phone calls, emails, lunches and other activities

Reward:
If you complete at least one 4-month commitment per year the next fall we will pay for your attendance on the Servant Leadership Camp. Servant Leadership weekend is an incredible retreat created especially to help train and empower youth leaders.

For more information about mentoring please contact the Middle School Office at 303-220-3388.


An Introduction to Mentoring: Patrick Reidy


Thought the Catacombs were only in Europe...not quite. Simply descend below the St. Thomas More Evangelization Center and Parish School to discover a different kind of evangelization that's as crisp and refreshing as a cold summer shower. Yes, Italy's tombs contain the remains of some of the great early followers of Christianity, a characteristie ours will probably never be able to claim. Both do, however, share a common trait: Catholics go to both seeking inspiration in their lifelong journeys toward a deeper relationship with Christ.

Every Sunday and Wednesday evening, just after the sun has dropped below the horizon and the wind proceeds to nibble on uncovered arms and legs, at a time when most sane people are at home enjoying their evening meals and sharing fellowship with loved ones, a number of brave souls descend into the Catacombs of St. Thomas More, home of Crossfire, the middle school youth ministry program. If you were thinking that youth group was just for high school, well you'd be wrong. Crossfire meets on Sunday from 6:00 to 8:30 p.m. for 7th and 8th graders and Wednesday from 6:00-8:00 p.m. for 6th graders.

Behind the helm are Christy Burke and Megan Sandberg, two phenomenal youth ministers who care more about 6th, 7th, and 8th graders than a great many teachers I've heard of over the years! But you've probably heard about them already, and frankly, that's not who I was asked to write about. For another group of even more courageous souls exists, a group who makes a descent of their own each week, high-school students on fire for Christ and willing to subject themselves to intense questioning and youthful abuse to help those Crossfire teens grow in a deeper understanding of the faith they profess each week at Mass. Some call them crazy, others zealous, but for the sake of normalcy and a fear of libel, we'll stick with the title of"Mentor."

Mentoring is a ministry that, before the start of the summer, was as real for me as a tap-dancing polar bear. I never knew such a group existed! A plea went out for juniors and seniors in high school, especially those already in our youth group Breakaway, to join the mentor brigade and serve Christ through a "mini-me-ministry," one apparently similar to our youth group but on a younger curriculum. I bought into the idea in a second, considering a career in education or the religious life. We were educated in the ways of youth care and instruction thoroughly, and finally around mid-summer, 2002 B.W.Y.D. (Before World Youth Day), we were introduced to the harvest. Wednesday nights were "Meet me at Crossfire" apparently, because from that time until Confirmation, the youth ministers, adults, and mentors catered to an assortment of over a hundred youth!

The whole process has been on both sides of the coin; I often question who gained more from coming on a given night, myself or the youth I work with. I say this because there are few experiences in our lives as Catholic men and women which force us to question what we may have been taught or struggle to justify our beliefs. If that's something you desire, please talk to Christy or Megan and join us on Sunday or Wcdnesday night. My opportunity in being able to work with the youth of our parish and help them understand a little more about their faith has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my high school career and that's saying something, having the privilege to attend Regis Jesuit High School!

One of the dreams I've had for the larger portion of my existence has been to travel to Italy and visit the sites in Rome and the Vatican. No doubt, if given the opportunity, I would make a descent of my own into the Catacombs under the city. My reasons would be slightly different than that of many other Catholics, however. I'm forming a deeper relationship with Christ each week through our youth, right here; I don't need to go to Italy for that!


MENTORING EXPERIENCE: Devin McDaniel

I started mentoring for Crossfire, the Middle School Youth Group, in February of 2006. I got reeled into doing the spring retreat called “God’s Olympiad” by my friends that were already mentors.  Wasn’t sure what I thought about mentoring, but I don’t know what my life would be like without it.  On that retreat I gave my first testimony ever.  I was terrified of speaking in public, but God gave me the strength to just get up there and tell my story.  I was so excited about my story and it showed.  I think that almost every kid in that room connected with my story; I could not have imagined that they would respond to me so well. It was then that I absolutely fell in love with it. 

Mentoring has literally been a life changing experience for me and I wouldn’t trade it for anything else in the world.  Before mentoring, my life never seemed to be going in the right direction, but now that I have a reason to help someone, everything seems to be straightening out.   

New kids come in every Sunday (or Wednesday) and they move up the ladder every year, but what’s amazing is how they change.  Not only do they grow a ton (which is scary, they just keep getting taller then me), but their faith grows more than I could ever imagined.  As Mentor’s we’re supposed to be teaching them about faith and God, but honestly I learn more from them about to act like a child and how to live my life then I could ever teach them. 

Luke 18:17 says “Amen I say to you, whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it.”  The middle school students at Crossfire are amazing and have a faith that is rare to see in today’s society.  Because of this, it is a welcome relief to mentor every week.

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